Illustratie Heidi Zoestbergen

I have to, I should, I have to, I should…

I myself, in a rather unexpected way, came across a new perspective,

which was unknown to me: “I should do nothing, I am allowed and can choose”.

But when my girlfriend put in the same sentence, she got another outcome; namely: “What do I want myself?” and “how can I make that clear to others?” I became aware of how useless it is to give advice to others based on your own experience. Better to encourage them to investigate for themselves.