{"id":2679,"date":"2019-05-24T15:28:51","date_gmt":"2019-05-24T15:28:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/myinsightout.nl\/?post_type=inspiration&#038;p=2679"},"modified":"2019-05-24T15:28:51","modified_gmt":"2019-05-24T15:28:51","slug":"annoyance","status":"publish","type":"inspiration","link":"https:\/\/myinsightout.nl\/en\/inspiration\/annoyance\/","title":{"rendered":"Annoyance"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span lang=\"EN-US\">The sentence I started with was: <i>&#8216;When I received no response to my request for a conversation, I became impatient and irritated<\/i>&#8216;.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Through my Insight Out I found out that I in general I hesitate to contact someone directly. I usually ask the other person to contact me. Out of fear that I may be too direct and afraid of being rejected, I developed that habit.<\/p>\n<p>The theme is: &#8216;making myself smaller than necessary &#8211; feeling dependent causes negative emotions in me&#8217;.<br \/>\nI discovered how I actually make myself dependent on another.\u00a0And then if that person does not give me what I want, I become impatient. On one hand I do not feel taken seriously, and on the other hand, I am uncertain whether I am of value for the other.<\/p>\n<p>I now see how I operate very carefully trying to maintain the relationship, keeping myself out of contact. \u00a0My Insight Out gave me this challenge: &#8216;to actively make contact myself first&#8217;. Hmmm &#8230;. \u00a0I still have some homework. But it helps that I see what I can do, even though I don&#8217;t see myself doing it right away.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"featured_media":2485,"template":"","class_list":["post-2679","inspiration","type-inspiration","status-publish","has-post-thumbnail","hentry"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/myinsightout.nl\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/inspiration\/2679","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/myinsightout.nl\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/inspiration"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/myinsightout.nl\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/inspiration"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/myinsightout.nl\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2485"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/myinsightout.nl\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2679"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}